Below is a link to the timer/relay that I bought from Amazon and use with my CS/60. The timer costs < $15 is powered from 240vac, and has a "dry" relay contact output which means it contains a relay with both sides accessible by connections (and neither side tied to AC). The fact that the timer is powered by 240vac is convenient as it can be powered by the same AC circuit as the EVSE and doesn't require a neutral. Put small inline fuses in both power wires to the timer, of course.
http://www.amazon.com/Amico-Digital-Programmable-Electronic-220-240V/dp/B008X1FWEC
I noticed the problem when the timer relay is used with the CS60 on/off wire: the RAV4 doesn't wake up and start charging when the relay opens, if the RAV4 is fully asleep after an hour. The only way I've found to wake the RAV4 is to remove and reconnect the J1772 connector, temporarily increasing the resistance that the RAV4 sees on the proximity wire.
So as a compromise solution I connected the timer instead to the CS60 high/low input. When the timer relay output grounds the CS60 high/low wire, the CS60 signals a 10% duty cycle on the control/pilot wire so that the RAV4 only draws 6A. When the timer opens the relay, the CS60 signals 80% duty cycle on the control/pilot allowing the RAV4 to draw at its full rate.
So it is a compromise. Instead of not charging at all during the day, the RAV4 charges at 6A, but stays awake. Then at night the RAV4 charges at its maximum rate of 40A.